My husband and I have been married for 6 years but we've been together for 15 years. So, a lot of petty things that urk other couples, we have long let pass. However, there are still some things that bother me a bit.
I try my best to look good for my hubby (as any other wifey would) but sometimes it gets a bit hard with the kids, school and work. For example, my hair is always an issue (for me only it seems). I didn't realize that I hadn't had a perm since my birthday in May. So, the other day, I finally found some time to put it in and actually do my hair. I made a big deal about it to Duane, letting him know I was gonna look like his wife again. He said I looked fine the way I was but ladies, we know the truth.
Well, I put the perm in on Monday evening. It is now Friday night and he has yet to comment on my hair. He's seen it all week and we even spent the entire day together yesterday (just the 2 of us) and nothing. Should I be bothered that he hasn't noticed or commented? Or should I be happy that my hubby loves me whether my hair is a mess or not? I feel like I should say something to trigger a compliment but in a way I feel like I shouldn't have to. I mean, I'm not angry or trying to pick a fight about it but it would be nice to know he noticed that I did my hair for him.
Perhaps, I'm making too big a deal of this. I mean, he did say that I looked good regardless. I don't know, what do you think?
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I think if you lobbed off your left boob would be the time when a man would notice something changed about you. Accept that he loves you for you, and do your hair because you want to treat yourself - not for him.
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